Hi Wendy! I'm glad you came back to post an update. I've been wondering how you have been doing.
The housing market here isn't much better and I do understand why you are waiting patiently to sell. I don't blame you at all. So, how's the living arrangement going? Is he still acting out or has he pretty much settled down into a routine now that you aren't doing anything for him?
Your job sounds like a busy one with lots of "memory" time. All of those passwords keep your mind focused on your work. I'm sure you are meeting a lot of interesting people in your line of work.
As for the eHarmony guy, at least you were able to see his true colors before spending too much of your time w/him. When you least expect it, the right one will walk into your life.
Wendy, please take care of yourself.
Aloha!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.