NTL, If you are still curious about the routing number, you can always call the bank from which the check is drawn and inquire about the routing number. You can advise them that you have a check made out to you, but you want to ensure that the account is still good. She may continue to use the old account, but has new checks issued on it w/her new address, etc.
Many mlcers leave just about everything behind . It's their way of leaving their "past" behind, but also gives them an excuse to return for something. If the clothes and/or his belongings are bothering you, pack them up and place them in a room where you don't have to see them on a day-to-day basis. Yes, I would say he made his point by leaving his truck there. He's marked his territory and made sure you had to see it every day it was parked there. Poor fool...he's very lost right now.
You asked about my knee. I had partial knee replacement surgery in late January and have recovered very nicely. I'm actually able to do things that I haven't been able to do in a very long time. It was well worth the surgery and being patient and taking it one day at a time helped in the recovery, i.e., just like dealing w/a MLCer. LOL! Thanks for asking.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
