I took awhile off this site. I was worried about my lack of privacy, given that "someone" as my X calls the new love of his life seems to monitor my every internet move. And my X defended this by saying she figured it out by googling the screen name I also used to play an online game...... Stalking is still stalking. But I digress. I don't call her OW because I am no longer part of that drama filled game.
Anyway, I don't really care who reads this stuff. I miss my internet friends. I gained so much from reading other peoples threads. And yes, I finally quit cooking his dinner and buying his food. It took me a long time, though.
We are still in the same house, which still hasn't sold. Tough times. My good friend is a real estate broker in FLA. I told her that the last 3 sales in my neighborhood have been people buying to tear down. She thinks that is hurting selling my house. And I can't afford to sell my nice house for a tear down price. So it is a waiting game.
My new job is going well. It is more complicated than I thought. I have 10 different passwords for various programs I use in my job. And I have 4 different computers I work on, two on one desk, two on another. Often times I am doing 3 different tasks, sort of at the same time. And taking crazy phone calls. I am getting pretty good at solving peoples computer problems, though that isn't at all in my job description. The number one reason people can't get their computer access card to work right is because they mix up their passwords.
I continue to attempt to date, with hilarious results. My second meeting with a guy from eHarmony started off well with a meeting at a meditation. But went sideways when he realized he had hit a curb before the meditation and bent his rim. He had a complete melt-down and let's just say I wasn't impressed. Everyone knows you can't get your car fixed on a Saturday night, at least not in Hawaii! So why spend two hors calling everyone in Oahu and a few people on the mainland trying to figure it out?
Anyway, Aloha all!
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
