Good Old England

[Big Bruce]

Hi,
I prefer now to give it some time between interactions, I've noticed that in the spur of the moment or even a day or two after, the thoughts are a little irrational and exaggerated.

Anyway, W and I are reaching a property distribution.
Should I be more generous than the numbers and formula, or fight so I give the minimum possible (which is legal but appears as if I have no love).
Somehow, my guts tell me that the marriage is still salvageable. I don't know if it is the stupid hope of a left behind S, or a real thing.
But I'm doing all that you said,ie being a great father in the 10% time I have.


The next challenge, is asking for more time with my son. I have told my lawyer to hold on for the moment although we're ready to compel a pre-trial.
The reason being that the first time, after the interim order, things with W were worse than ever.
The other reason being that since we're talking property distribution, maybe W would open to talk about supports revision and child time share. Maybe.

Any experience to share with me? How to ask and appear?
Many thanks,
Bruce.