Originally Posted By: labug
What's your boundary here?

She wants to have sex with you, that's pretty clear.

Can you have sex with her without putting more meaning to it than having sex?

If you don't want to have sex, why the sexual banter?




I think I could have sex without it meaning more right now but that could be easier to say than do.

I do want to have sex, I have just stated that it won't be until we have made progression in repairing the relationship. That means I could initiate or or be open to it after our first MC session.

I engaged in sexual banter because it's fun and I'm not saying it won't happen but it's just not right now.

I suppose in a way it's my way of controlling how she tries to control me.
Sandi mentioned that she will use sex to try and control me and the more I can stay away from the it or not do it the less control she will have.


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W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
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