We have been seeing a counselor both individually and sometimes together. It depends how things are between us.

I'm not convinced everything will be OK yet. After the a was revealed things seemed to be getting better for a while then it went way south. I'll believe it when I see it.

The only difference now is that I have told him I am done. I don't mind it taking a while as long as we are moving. Most of all he has to make that break with ow. I am interested how long he intends to take doing that. I am at that point where I can't wait forever. I already had in my mind I was moving. I am well aware that we could be going through this a whole lot longer.

For me I think the key will be if he cuts it off with ow and doesn't go back. To me that is the deal breaker now since I had myself ready to move on.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out