WH let your lawyer handle it. When I was going through the d that never finished my L said " is he having an a because if he is then she will be pushing for it to be over so they are more likely to end up settling for less.
Well he was having an a but it killed him to think I was getting too much. But, in your case the cat is out of the bag about the marriage so she will be pushing Hard. Stay calm.
I would maybe say something to the GAL or what ever you call that person for the kids about h not letting you talk to the kids on his time when they are in the same house with you. That can't be good for the kids, especially if he is saying that in front of them. He obviously is more worried about you then the kids. That's sad.
You're going to be fine WH. Just keep being you and you'll be ok.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
