Originally Posted By: britt54
Took him to threaten to leave for me to finally listen. Sad on my part. But I'm committed now. It's just to prove it. Cause I can tell he doesn't believe ill change. And he is holding back because of that. My struggle is to get him to have faith in me....


The way to do that is through consistency. The longer you can demonstrate that you want to change and have changed, the more he will come to believe it.

You'll be fine.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."