I'm shallow and I focus on the shallow pieces of our lives because our wives are uncontrollable flakes .
Church is good. I fell away from it because of some extreme views that the old timers preached......but it feels good thinking there is a bigger plan....and hope:)
If your w reaches out be a friend - just don't overcompensate.
Keep up the diet, keep up the job search, keep up the exercise and the volunteering..........you give of yourself - at your own expense sometimes. Don't lose what you have gained in this short time.
I want you to be successful
I want you to be successful, too, buddy. You're too hard on yourself, you're not shallow!
You know I'm keeping all that stuff up. Down to 188 this morning! Haven't heard anything from my W today, but that's okay.
Church was good today. Met some really nice people and lit a candle for my W. Got together with my grade-school buddy for coffee, too.
Originally Posted By: MrCas
You are making deposits in her love bank account. Keep making the deposits. No withdrawals.