I never sent w the message above; I have been silent since she cancelled. She text me yesterday asking if I got our tax refund yet. Wow. To go from wishing me a happy anniversary and confirm a trip away with me. And then to cancel without explanation. And now to be asking about money...


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)