My father is the same way Kelela. When my H cam to visit recently, my dad talked to him about his decision and told him to hurry and file so that I won't be "hanging on to hope". I know he meant well.... but that irritated me.

So glad you found beds for your boys and you have support from your BIL and SIL. Stay focused on the positives you have coming your way!

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope