Yes I feel like he really doesn't want to go. I really think be just doesnt know how to deal with his emotions. I think he feels them alot stronger than others because he is a very emotional person. He went out last night and text me in the middle to update me and let me know when he would be home. And then apologized this morning for being so late. He seems to be trying...he also actually initiated a hug today which was so nice.
No it isn just sex at all, it's everything. He craves touch, hugs, kisses, everything. So I have decided to make it my effort to make that apart of my life. He needs that to breath in our marriage. He has asked me a million times and I have shoved it under the rug. Took him to threaten to leave for me to finally listen. Sad on my part. But I'm committed now. It's just to prove it. Cause I can tell he doesn't believe ill change. And he is holding back because of that. My struggle is to get him to have faith in me....
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14