Thank you I will and I think now it will be a little easier foe me to do 180 now. Just heard from my brother in law he helped H move some of his big things to his new place and H never informed his brother ahead of time that he is moving in with OW. So when they got there BIL was confused that OW was there he said he had a hard time not going off on his brother about what in the world is going on. And SIL called me to find out what's going on I told her that they need to go and have a chat with H. My side of the story is we are working on it. And she told me if I ever need to just talk she will be here for me. So this is making me feel a little better I have more ppl to talk to if I need it.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013