Okay, I see I think. You know the thing is I am a nice person to almost everyone Seriously. And so is my WAW. I try to treat ppl like I would like to be treated. And yes, I have had a tendancy to be nice to my S in these emails but will now try to be a little less nice. Not ugly but to the point. Anyways has a great weekend GALing. Now things slow down a bit again.
I'm generally a nice person as well, I wouldn't hurt a fly The thing is, you've been hurt by your W. Like I said be friendly, but treat her as if you were talking to a neighbour. Be sympathetic if she's ill or in dire straits, etc. You're not being mean here, just not over friendly. By being over friendly she'll back off. Remember baby steps Answer her emails as short as you can. You can feel proud of yourself that you've been answering her emails in a nice way but to the point. Don't beat yourself up about this, you're doing exactly the right thing My weekend is almost over but thanks anyway Enjoy yourself GALing this week
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
The thing is, you've been hurt by your W. Like I said be friendly, but treat her as if you were talking to a neighbour. Be sympathetic if she's ill or in dire straits, etc. You're not being mean here, just not over friendly. By being over friendly she'll back off. Remember baby steps 
