You are so smart to remember how long this will take. Are you in personal therapy or a support group - I am guessing it is more important then ever to stay focus on your well being and GAL.
Let his mother be the negative, you should be on his team if he is willing to work on it.
25 has told a story of a couple she knew growing up, where the H left or cheating on his wife years before hand and he came back. The problem was the W told the everyone about it and he never lived it down. He was never forgiven.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
