Questions without answers...am I stuck in place?

[albamarie]

~Notlikingthis – I’m not liking this either ☺! He needs to hit bottom before he will be able to move from the place that he is stuck.

Yes, how can he hit bottom if I am still behind him to avoid the pieces from falling in the first place. I am his shield! The dynamics of his R with EA will change, as well as many other aspects of his life that I now keep in control.

You will breathe easier and feel 100% better after he's gone. Funny, I was ecstatic the moment I hung up the phone, it felt like a weight gone.

In their mlc state they think that what they can handle the turmoil that they are causing themselves.

Exactly, that’s why he says he will give up everything and that’s ok! He truly believes he will prevail. He also says that’s why it’s not a PA, that’s not what he’s after, it her chaos. it becomes or is an addiction

I suspect that he is going to start spiraling downward toward the bottom and his behavior will be even less tolerable

I agree, and I am not going to let him play me. This morning he kissed me good-by, sorry I’m not impressed. At this point the only recourse he has is to stand his ground, (let’s face it I can’t really thro him out), or threaten my $$$.

I’m interested in seeing how ugly he will get. My S22 is waiting for my signal to take him down, I would never do that, but H knows he’s on borrowed time. I have to be careful tho that I do blurr the lines between being strong and acting out of raw emotions, he can smell emotion and use it against me.

Thanks so much for stopping by and your support!

~Mizjjd- I'm betting your H will put on quite the show between now and 9/1. Do NOT let him blame you for his choices! He is simply having to face the consequences of his own decisions.

Wow, I would be scared at this point hearing this as the popular consensus if I didn’t have you guys to help me thru. Some of you have done this step already. Don’t they hate facing their own consequences, that’s what I think he will bring out the blame?

Nice to hear from you, I hope your doing well!