It if you sit quietly and patiently, the answers will be revealed to you. The best thing that I can suggest is keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth silent. He's bound to tell on himself eventually, i.e., they all do. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
