H went away for a week said he was going to sales etc,was very vague and seemed upset. Funny thing,I never saw suspected ow around that week either,but the night he got back i saw her drive by my house,coincidence?When he showed up the next morning for breakfast it was all I could do not to say something or ask if he and ow had a nice holiday. He was vague about where he went and what he did. Do I do the eyes open mouth shut scenario?