Yup...time to have that convo and its gonna be an ouchy one ;P
You may want to outline everything in a spreadsheet ahead of time. Remain calm and cool, money is always a button pusher
H finances us completely, to his own detriment, because it puts him short, and xgf really didn't have full time job, so I think outings were on his hook. I try to come up with as much as I can to offset his payments, so he can have some cash (this is a 180 for me, i.e. grateful instead of taking for granted and giving him money when I have had a good week).
While I didn't mind him being the bread winner when we were together, it rubs me the wrong way now we are separated....
