I agree with what both Bmum and Miz are saying Taking care of yourself is the most important I've got a local coffee shop here similar to starbucks where I spent a lot of time in the early days. I've also got on family nearby so I'm on my own as well. My nearest family is about 45 mins away from me, so I've had to rely on friends a lot to help me out. My family doesn't know what's going on anyway and I want to keep it that way for the time being Hope you enjoyed your Church service today, let us know how you got on Don't give up though on finding the right Church for you
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'm trying really hard to have a Happy face while H is moving some things out right now. I'm crying hard inside cause this could be the last time i will see him for awhile. This really [censored] I hate this so much and yes I know its still a long road ahead of me.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
I'm trying really hard to have a Happy face while H is moving some things out right now. I'm crying hard inside cause this could be the last time i will see him for awhile. This really [censored] I hate this so much and yes I know its still a long road ahead of me.
No-one is asking you to put on a happy face whilst he is moving out. When he's moving his stuff out, don't hang around, Busy yourself doing other things, go for a walk, sit in the garden, take the kids out somewhere, just anywhere so you don't have to upset yourself. You're hurt enough, why let yourself be hurt even more
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
H just confirmed that he And OW did move in together and she also has a little boy also. Now I have to try to move on and start living again. This is super sad day for me I had thought he was just living by himself for awhile before they decided to move in together.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
sorry to hear your news K You did have your suspicions didn't you? remember what I told you about OW, it won't last! He'll see the bad sides of her now as well as the good. Keep your chin up, just look after you and your kids now. He'll come around eventually, I'm sure of it
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Tomorrow is day one I do have good news since H took the boys bunk bed to his place I went out just looking for new beds for my boys and to me I found a good deal two twiin set beds for $500.00 inside of one twin set at a retail store. And thanks to my father my boys will now have real beds to sleep on instead of the bunk beds. I owe my father so much. The beds will be delivered tomorrow night. I hope my boys will be happy with their new beds
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
I'm sorry about your H moving in with OW but I think it will help the reality of her set in
That's great about the beds. Dads are awesome......mine is awesome too! It's wonderful your boys, and mine, have a great role model
All the best
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
Thank you I will and I think now it will be a little easier foe me to do 180 now. Just heard from my brother in law he helped H move some of his big things to his new place and H never informed his brother ahead of time that he is moving in with OW. So when they got there BIL was confused that OW was there he said he had a hard time not going off on his brother about what in the world is going on. And SIL called me to find out what's going on I told her that they need to go and have a chat with H. My side of the story is we are working on it. And she told me if I ever need to just talk she will be here for me. So this is making me feel a little better I have more ppl to talk to if I need it.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
White rose I agree with you I'm so glad that my father has been there for me since day one. The only thing is I know my father means well and how wants me to just file and move on from H. Cause I deserve so much better then H. I understand what he is saying but im not there yet to give up on my marriage. Maybe now I'll be able to start living again and see where I will end up in a day, month or a year from now. Now I can work on myself one day at a time and i have my boys with me to help me out.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Taking care of yourself is the most important 