Thanks, KP. I do have a grateful heart and none of xh's antics will change that. You're right. Why would I be surprised by anything xh does? I need to start laughing at his nonsense.

My family, especially my kids, my friends, neighbors and co-workers are all my mirror. I know I am living honorably. I am kind, loving, giving and hard-working. Because of this I have lots of good people in my corner. Who does xh have? All he really has is his lawyer, who's being paid to support him, and a loser gf who he fights with. He foolishly thinks that once the settlement is done he will be happy. It's then that he will realize all that he's lost.