GM, You will need to stand firm and move forward on what you and your boys will need to live on. I think your h doesn't really know what he wants. He's been dragging his heels on this settlement for a long time and it makes me wonder if he's not sure of what he wants or he's hoping that he can wear you down into agreeing to anything to just get rid of him. Whatever the reason, you need to be cautious whenever they are being nice. Generally, when dealing with a MLC, nice = they are up to something and/or you are about to be screwed over royally.
If he doesn't cooperate and settle the issues as discussed, I think I would move forward with the court order to move and I would have the attorney lay out all of the reasons that you are proceeding this way. It's very evident your h is jerking your chain and the lawyer is going along w/it because it's more money in his/her pocket.
I'm sorry that things are looking bleak again, but stand firm and show this man that you are stronger than he thinks.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
