T, this issue about paying for the MC...it's also a boundary issue, your own boundaries with yourself.

You drew your line with your W about MC. She's maybe on board with that and you now find it will be a financial hardship for you. What if she doesn't have the money to pay? Or doesn't want to?

What will you do then?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss