Last Sunday I had to head off to work on a five day trip. W told me that she was taking the kids bowling with a girlfriend. Her plans changed last minute and said that she was going to a bday lunch with her aunt and then going bowling.
When I came home from work my son and I were catching up on his week of fun. I asked him how bowling was and he said good but moms GF didn't go, divorced-dad went with them. W never mentioned that she went with him and I haven't said anything about it to her either.
Now with her saying that she is filing for D I see no reason to bring it up other than journaling it here.
She has said in the past that she is going out with or over to her GFs house. I believe that she does go out with her GFs but I suspect that she has gone to see divorced-dad too. One night she left unexpectedly, at 11pm and didn't come home until after 2am. My suspicions of a PA you aroused by that. I asked her if she was having an EA/PA and she said no. I probably shouldn't have asked but I wanted to here it from her personally.
MLC/WAS situations are tough on an LBS. No doubt they are tough on the WLC/WAS too but my opinion is that it is tougher emotionally on the LBS.
