"Bust" is a better word. I would lose win though. Your W is not a prize. You get to keep prizes with no effort. She is not a possession. She is a valued piece of your life you want to ivite back into your life.
Point taken. Thank you for the correction!
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Your mission, if you decide to accept, is to become the spouse that only a fool would leave. Good luck, Lefty. This message will self destruct in five seconds.
**cue lalo schifrin theme*
I heard from the W tonight. She texted me to ask me for a favor. I, regrettably, couldn't help her out, but we had a brief conversation and I got some more details about her illness. I did, however, screw up and didn't end the conversation first.
I felt a little bad about that, but continued with my evening. A couple of hours later, I was finishing Chapter 2 of DR, and I came across this passage:
Originally Posted By: MWD
If you and your spouse are separated and s/he wants little to do with you, consider it a baby step forward if your mate asks you for a favor.
So that's what I'm doing, I'm allowing myself to celebrate and feel positive, per the other passages in that section. Two baby steps in one week!
