Hi RL,

No, he hasn't called and the truck is still here! Since his move he's only left the truck here when he goes to work. I'm puzzled as to why he would be so late if he is working. If it's still here in the morning I'm going to be a little worried. I know that the ow was still around town this afternoon so unless she went over and picked him up I haven't a clue as to where he is.

I left around the time that I thought he might be here to get his truck and when I came back I checked the mailbox. I felt like someone had slapped me in the face! The ow had written me a check for the tags that I picked up for my h a few days ago. She must have stopped by while I was gone. The envelope had just my first name on it (spelled wrong) but no address or stamp! The good news, if there is any, is that the checks have her name only on them and her address from the state that she moved here from! Weird. She probably is syphoning money off of the money that he gave here to cover bills and is sending it to acct in she has back home or overseas. Hey, maybe she and her h have a scam going. Wouldn't that be funny! NOT! No she isn't Korean or Russian (but from a country overseas) but something isn't right here. I guess I'll cash the check and use the "dirty" money anyway. LOL

I read on your thread that your h was using some "special" company that expedites Visa's. Hope it's not all a part of that Russian scam thing.

I think our h's are so use to us doing things for them that they don't know where to begin to take care of things like Visas and planning. Mine has his gold digging s!u+ princess to take care of him, your h has no one unless you do it for him. Aren't they something? Last time I looked October is the month after Sept. when he leaves to visit the R.T., right? I'd plan to go without him and as you're packing the car to go tell him that you'll be back on xyz day and see if he remembers the conversation that you had about going to your sister's beach home.

Your h wouldn't know what hit him if the virulent Korean branch of the Russian mafia gets a hold of him. Speaking of virulent, hopefully the strain of gonorrhea that she had wasn't the strain from Asia that is resistant to antibiotics. Geez, your h needs a slap upside his head if he didn't even ask her the street name for what she was being treated for. He really is lost in space, isn't he? Thank God you were snooping on that one. I have to restrain myself on that too. I feel like I can handle just about anything that I find but I do feel guilty the times that I've done it for something other than our finances. I've never snooped in his email but checked out his cell phone use a few times. I don't even get angry, I just shake my head or laugh.

I noticed the ladies on your thread were talking about their h's height. Mine is also a pretty tall one but since losing so much weight he is almost skeleton like. Everyone has noticed and says that he looks tired. They're asking me if he sick. 6'4', 174 lbs and maybe even less now. He's down at last 21 lbs! He has wide bony shoulders now and stick thin legs. He also looks 10 years older. I'm almost a ft. shorter than him and feel dwarfed when I stand next to him so you must really feel like a dwarf next to yours. I hope your h listened to his Dr. and starts taking the prescribed medications soon. He is playing with fire by not taking them. A friend of ours had Lyme's too and he waited almost too long to start the antibiotics. He was in really bad shape for awhile.

Thanks for stopping by. I'm off to take a peek at your thread to find out the latest.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama