Withdrawing first sounds like a great idea. Snodderly and Cadet and uR and the other vets have been giving me similar advice. 

So I tried it. We went to our niece's birthday party this evening, then when we got home I went up to bed without saying one word to H, not even good night. Just like H often does to me. I hope it has some effect. Keep up the good work. Let us know how your planned early withdrawal works SA


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17