Thanks BKS. Today it was such a change that it does have my mind reeling. It could be acceptance, it could be that yesterday went well and she's more comfortable interacting because of that. It could be she had a good time last night, if you know what I mean.... :-(
I was at a bit of a disadvantage in that I was asleep on the couch when she came over, but she knew I was exhausted from work, and she usually texts that she's heading over. She must have left right after asking if it was ok.
She texted that she wasn't "stealing kitchen stuff" and that she'd go thru it and give half back, same for DVDs (this stuff was already packed for our move). I let that go without reply. I don't care about any of that, but it shows that she still feels entitled to anything. On the other hand, in her limited way, she is at least trying to be fair. That was exactly how it went last time around, too.
So, today I was level, then a bit up, then down a lot from thinking about it too much again. Slept all day, so still physically on the night shift. Ugh. Maybe I'll walk to store for exercise and provisions.