Enough - time to move on

[MrBond]

"And I found your question condescending, which is why I didn't answer it."

Really? in what way? I asked a simple question of whether or not you discussed how to talk to your kids in the way that you just did with a C or if you had read any books on the effects on children. I'm concerned about the well being of your kids as I am sure you are and your defensiveness hinted that you didn't.

There are no winners or losers. Your children are caught in the middle of this. Any child T worth their weight will tell you that the way you approached it was wrong. I understand that YOU have gone to a T but have you ever considered going to a child T?

They are your first priority.

So if you think my intention was purposely to demean you, when I have other people to help, then that's your attitude.

"yes I am in counseling and I have asked specifically about how to deal with this issue."

So the T told you to talk to your kids in EXACTLY that way huh?