Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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Trent!!! Oh how I've missed you and your words of advice:) can you even believe I'm back here again? I can't:(

I have been making it a conscious decision every morning to show him my affection. I have been doing all the initiating. I am trying not to overdo it so that it looks forced but its hard. He is reacting for sure and enjoying it but isn't giving me anything in return. Until this morning he came and laid by me in bed and asked me to cuddle him. But then followed through with the statement that he feels like he is still so angry inside. In didnt know what to say so I didn't say anything. I don't wanna say the wrong thing?!

He has told me in the past week that if he we leaving he would have left and hasn't, and that if he didnt feel we could fix this problem he would be gone and I realize its built up and isn't going to get better overnight but in struggling with the right actions and what to do or say to help him get through this and realize our marriage is worth it.

He even got our wedding date tattooed on his finger a few months ago!! He told me bats how much faith he has in our marriage!

No I don't have any reason to believe there is another woman. I understand when it's a problem like this that's natural but I can wholeheartedly say I'm 100% sure that isn't the case.

He wasnt up for counseling last go around so I don't forsee him wanting to go this time either. It just really helps me to talk and get advise where as he is the opposite.

Thanks for all your support and advise in advance.