Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[TrentC]

Long time no see; I'm sorry you found yourself back here.

Don't worry about the begging and pleading; maybe you should have known better from the last go-around but having someone tell you they are unhappy and want out is not easy to handle, especially when you think you've worked through it.

You say that he is angry; how does he feel about marriage counseling? You mentioned that you talked to a counselor, but has he? Keep in mind that you HAVE dealt with this kind of thing and worked through it, at least for a while.

And I hate to bring it up, but how likely do you think it is that there is another woman again? Lack of intimacy is a prime motivation for going somewhere else to have your needs met.