I don't have any advice for you, but my H was the same way. He always had to be around other people, while I'm ok not leaving the house for days.

Don't get me wrong, I love to be with my friends and have good conversations with people, but I can be comfortable by myself.

XH has even told me that he realizes he can't be alone. I hope he will work on that and one day be comfortable with himself.

Unfortunately, as we all know, we can't "fix" our spouses. Just take care of yourself, so that no matter what happens between you and him, you'll be okay.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13