The links to the threads you provided regarding MLC and LBS's I read with great interest also.
I have a different welcome post on the MLC board that is chocked full of links and homework assignments. If you get some time read it and do all the homework.
My thoughts of this
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One minute she can be saying it one way and then for whatever reason hours or sometimes a day or so later she see's it completely different. Several times I have been completely baffled by this. The second thing is and this is where I have concern is that she is easily talked into or out of something. This is known by her own family to be the case with her. Not sure yet how this all adds up to this sitch but, I am sure there are current and future actions to come from these. Any thoughts?
is that she is confused and that is part of the script. You can not FIX her or CONTROL her, she must do that on her own. That process takes a very long time. Best to let her do that work and when she has completed it then you see where the two of you are at.
That is why the basic advice of DETACH is given. It is the only real thing you can do!
