Also, should I retract my ultimatum about the marriage counseling and tell him to just take the time and space he needs? Thing is, he is also getting very frustrated at not knowing what to do, and he doesn't want to be in the limbo either. He might come back from his camping trip set on separating for good.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.