I've been thinking about what you shared with me yesterday.
I believe this new information shows you more clearly that your H's behavior isn't about you.
He's not off with OW and madly in love - or he wouldn't be doing what he's doing.
Its clearly all about him, and all about the thrill he seeks/needs.
If you look at it that way, its almost good news?
Your H clearly has huge holes in his psyche and he's trying the wrong things to fill them. Let him go, don't waste your energy trying to stop what is not in your control. Let him burn himself out and then see if he comes to his senses, and see if you are still interested in him when that time comes.
Take care K
BTW, I see you popped over to 180's thread! Good for you K! I'm excited to see you reaching out
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
