Hi T2. I hope it's been a while since W has growled at you!

Regarding the SA your W was subjected to as a child, how has she dealt with it? Did she see it as a major issue for her pain all along? Does she confide in you about it? Has she gone to counseling to help her heal from it?

As you are aware, my W has been through similar. According to her actions and words, she doesn't see it as a big part of her present problems. Others assure me that it has to be... which does make sense.

How have you and your W dealt with this issue?

The Warrior site says it could take 10 years to heal... Ouch!

Thanks!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl