I hope it will now give me the strength and wisdom to stop this darn D and win my wife back.
So, you found the secret answer to stop something you didn't start? Share it with the rest of us mortals...
You need to detach yourself some more. Don't think about trying to use an illness as a way to weedle back in. I think the suggestion of telling your w that you will be there if she needs something and leave it at that.
Dropping the TRO should also not be thought of as an open invitation to open up a dialogue with your W except for the offer for support.
I know it is big tempting plum... just sitting there... glistening... calling your name...
Be strong, Lefty...
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
