Im just saying that as a couple, we had MANY gay friends and they came to our wedding, her baby shower, my daughters bday parties etc..

If everyone seems to be ditching my wife because of her actions, except for this group of folks, then to me that indicates that pethaps they may not share the same views on marriage.

Or, maybe I should clarify what I mean. When you are faced with the challenges that gay folks face in our society in order to be accepted, I think at some point you may not care if you are accepted any more.

So as a result, that group is obviously going to be more accepting of someone who is deviating from societal norms.

But this is just all my opinion. Some of her gay friends are really cool guys and ive hung out with them plenty if times. I just think that it seems they are not challenging my wife to take a good look at what she is doing, as,much as her other friends seem to be.

I could be wrong. Thats just what ive sensed in my sitch.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017