I have nothing against gay people in general. However, gay men in particular are not so good for women in crisis. That is just,my opinion from experience.
My wife has a heard of gay male friends and also tens of straight friebds (guys and gals). Since BD, the only friends of hers left are the gay guys!
Everyone else must have either disagreed with what she is doing, or distanced due to being uncomfortable, or likeing me, or some other reason.
But the gay guys are giving her support, one thousand percent!
The funny thing is, back in our happy days my wife used to say that she would not recommend straight people get relationship advice from gay men because she thought that essentially they had the b$tchiness if a woman and the unfaithfulness if men combined into one hot mess...
Oh how things change...
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
