What a dramatic change in your sitch in regard to the TRO being dropped! WTG!!
In regard to your desire to support W through her illness, you can do it in a way that does not appear to exert pressure on W. You could say something like this in a text to W:
Hey there! I'm checking in to see how you're doing. I can only image that you might be feeling scared about this illness. I am here if you need to talk and I will support you in any way I can.
Then leave it at that. No need to over-explain yourself. KISS..Keep It Short and Simple.
