Is it too soon to give up hope?

[2ndtimearoundCA]

I don't think one message is going to make or break my situation, so I am not too concerned with saying the wrong thing. I don't want to be weak, so I am going to call her out. For the past few months everything message I have sent has been positive, so I think a change up is in order. The whole situation is like trial and error figuring out what works and what doesn't.

Here is what I am thinking about sending ... I know .. There is loads of pressure here.. But I don't think in my case that pressure is the problem.. Being a "wuss" might be more of a problem. I don't expect a positive response. After sending I will leave her alone for at least a few weeks.

"I put a lot of thought, planning, and money into this Vegas trip that I am not going to be able to recover. The way things went down feels very wrong to me. It's not about the money. I just feel like I deserve an answer as to why you would agree to go on a trip, and then cancel two days before via text message without explanation."