Also since we all work together basically, I've had several other workers come over and tell me the things he's been saying. Things only him, myself and my wife could know. So if and when my divorce goes thru, he's the only person I can take my frustrations out on. If he's gonna talk crap, he better be able to back it up. I'm a former college football player, and own a construction co. so i'm no weakling.
