Yup I just got same speech you did, just last week. Things had been going pretty good for the last month or two. In my case, im pretty sure theres an old high school sweetheart texting her like crazy trying to convince her its over, and come back to him.

Plus I have a very gay man next door neighbor, and he also works with my wife, he's 15 years younger, telling her to have a blast with life, you don't need to be married, and don't worry about your kids, they'll be resilent.