Thanks Thumpered

I definitely didn't start the conversation and I certainly won't be bringing it up either. The business thing dates back to long before BD but it would involve a training course and government licensing which costs money so I'd also delayed agreeing to it. Without financing I doubt he could get it started anyway. It's been months since he even thought about starting his own business.

I've been pretty good at letting him initiate any contact unless it relates to S13. It's really hard sometimes especially as communicating is one of the underlying problems in our M.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks