Thanks but I was hoping that you'd say that I should ask him if he has any prospects for me!
You're not going to believe this. Your advice came at just the right time. He called me on his way home from work again just to say "hi" and ultimately to find out if I really did have a date last night. He chatted for awhile about his work then told me that it was nice to see me yesterday and how nice I looked (lip service and schmoozing) then said that it looked as if I was dressed for a date. I laughed and changed the subject. Oh no, that wasn't working for him at all. He stopped me and said you're avoiding my question. I innocently said "what"? He repeated what he said so I casually said, yeah, I guess you might get that impression by the way I was dressed and changed the subject again. It didn't satisfy him but he never brought it up again. Told him that I had a lot to do around the house before it got too late and said goodbye.
Well, it didn't end there. I was out blowing needles and other debris off of the patio when he drove up. Yep, dressed as if I were going on a date only wearing something that I would never leave the house in alone for fear of being picked up by the first mlcer that saw me. LOL He must have slipped by me somehow because I didn't see him walk up. It wasn't until he was pulling out of the driveway that I saw him. He stopped and waved me over....yep the first mlcer to see me and he's got this flirty tone in his voice. I couldn't see his eyes because he had sunglasses on but I can guarantee you that he was looking! HA! He asked if what I had on was new. I told him that it wasn't and changed the subject to my younger daughter.
He turned a bit serious and asked how she was doing. I mentioned that I'd taken her shopping and a few other things that she was up to. He said that we're going to have to plan something with her and that he discussed it with the ow and that ow agrees. WTF? The ow has nothing to do with this and doesn't get an opinion on it either. He and I have discussed and agreed that younger daughter cannot know about this. It would be too damaging to her. I didn't tell him this but she keeps asking about him, if he's working or out of town etc. I keep putting her off but eventually she's going to get on a bus and show up here one day and figure this out. I am very protective of her when it comes to things like this. He use to be but we all know that if it doesn't involve the mlcer directly then it's not important. Sorry, I got sidetracked here. Anyway, back his visit. I started to back away had turned the blower back and he's still talking. I turned it off and asked him to repeat what he'd said. I acknowledged it and turned the blower back on. He just sat there in his truck so I turned toward him, smiled and aimed blower at him He shook his head, smiled and inched away still looking at me with a smile on his face. Ahhh yes, he is still in there and recognized that part of me that can be a bit devilish.
Yes, I had my rings on but I don't know if he noticed this time. I think his focus was elsewhere.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama