To me it seems like he felt like he was put on the spot by you asking him about the money, he may have felt you were accusing him. Of course, how he responded was inappropriate! I find it difficult talking to my H about any money matters, it is a sensitive subject for us. I wish we were able to sit down and have a normal conversation about money, but for some reason that is hard for us.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.