That is frustrating, I am finding the same thing sometimes. My H will say little nit-picky things to me and I feel like I am going to lose it! I try not to get bothered by it too much and just let it slide, but it sure is difficult some times!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.