BKS, believe less than half of what you see, and NONE of what you here. It doesn't do or change anything really. Back off just a little bit, give her more time and space. She's got walls full up right now dealing with her decision.
The living together part, I know it makes it tough, but time to get lost in the evenings a little bit. Sounds like she hasn't had a chance to really MISS you yet. Your too close to the situation. Its easier for her to run right now.
Don't due or say anything this weekend, get scarce a bit. Don't say anything unless its regarding the kids. Maybe, and this im not sure about, go sleep on the couch. Let her feel a lonely bed a few nights. Don't get discouraged, do your DB stuff. Detach as best as you can. She's feeling some pressure, let her have all the time she wants to think about it.
Got some golf clubs, go hit the links with a friend. Call a buddy right now and do a guys night tomorrow. My wife and I were doing fine for a bit as well, and for no reason im back to before square 1. That's ok. Just don't panic, this is far from over. If she tries to bring up D over the weekend, just tell her you have a lot to think over and need some more time please. My DB coach said she's "testing" a bit, she how you respond. Don't play the game, and fall into the trap. YOU CAN DO IT!!
