Blindsided

[chl0901]

After working out today at lunch, my best friend and I grabbed a bite to eat. She and her H are having problems right now, and after we talked about her sitch I reluctantly told her about mine and H's problems and OW (I had told her about the BD last month when it happened but she didn't know about OW). I told her why I didn't tell her before (because I didn't want to hear any "leave him" answers from other people), but she was understanding to my sitch since she is having M problems, too (no OW in her sitch though). I did feel a little relief in letting her know about what's going on, but I will not talk to anyone else about it except for her and this board. I also told her some about 180s and GALs (which she has been doing somewhat already for a few months unintentionally).