I should add that all of this is compounded by the fact that I could have our baby in as few as 2 weeks. I know in my heart nothing NEEDS to be resolved by then, it's just another event in our journey. I had just been HOPING we'd be heading for higher ground by that time. Instead his adamance that I have nothing to do w/ his mom (going as far as him almost telling her she can't come to help me after the baby arrives as planned) makes it feel like things are actually getting worse.
I've never said an unkind thing about him to her so its not like I've created something for him to worry about... I'm just feeling like he's trying to fortify the wall he's built around himself before we spend time together when our son is born.
Promises to be a fun delivery room- ha. "Oh hi stranger that wants nothing to do w/ me that I haven't seen in months. Can you pass me some ice chips while I deliver your son (as he's texting OW). "
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?
